The Ultimate Missouri Uncontested Divorce Checklist

Here ate two tools to help you and your spouse talk about the nuts and bolts of your divorce. Use these to make sure you have talked about all of the major topics that will need to be decided in order to get divorced.

The first in the packet is a checklist. If you and your spouse can check off each box on the list, you are in great shape to obtain an uncontested divorce. That means that you have settled your divorce before it is filed, and you can ask the judge to sign the divorce decree and approve your marital settlement agreement after the minimum 30 days has passed. This is typically the fastest, least stressful, and most affordable way to get divorced.

The second is a worksheet. This is designed to help you and your spouse think through in more detail all of the topics in the checklist. Too often, spouses think they have reached a quick agreement, only to be frustrated later when things fall apart because something important was missed.

As you work through the list, keep in mind that even if you are not able to reach an agreement, talking about all of these items will help you identify where you are stuck and where you agree, which brings you one step closer to the resolution of your marriage. Our website has a lot of useful information to help you decipher anything that is not familiar. Be sure to read the post on what is and isn’t marital property before you start. If you have lots of questions as you work through this, that is a good sign you could use the help of a professional attorney or family mediator.

What is a non-contested divorce hearing?

When the parties in a divorce case have reached an agreement on how to end their marriage, a marital settlement agreement is drafted that reflects those terms along with a proposed judgement and parenting plan for the court to review and approve.

In some cases, particularly if neither party is represented by an attorney, the Court will conduct a brief hearing to review the settlement and enter judgment.

The hearing is typically brief, less than a half an hour. Both parties are sworn in and then asked to confirm the terms of their agreement and that they would like the judge to enter the judgement and approve the settlement agreement.

One advantage of hiring an uncontested divorce attorney, is that most courts will skip the settlement hearing as long as at least one party is represented and both parties submit an affidavit to the court asking for the judge to conclude the case.

What is Spousal Maintenance?

Many people are familiar with the concept of Alimony. But what exactly is spousal maintenance? Is it the same as alimony?

Alimony is no longer awarded in Missouri and has not been for quite some time. The old concept of alimony was based on concepts anchored in traditional gender roles and a fault-based system of divorce.

Since 1975, Missouri has been a “no-fault” state. This means that either spouse can ask for the marriage to be ended not for any specific reason but simply because the marriage is broken and can no longer be saved. The alimony framework was also eliminated.

Today, if either spouse lacks the ability to meet their reasonable needs and cannot work, and the other spouse is able to pay for some of those needs, the court can award spousal maintenance. This award can either be for a specific period of time or ongoing.

How is Maintenance Determined?

RSMo ยง 452.335 says that the court may grant a maintenance order to either spouse, but only if it finds that the spouse seeking maintenance:

(1) Lacks sufficient property, including marital property apportioned to him, to provide for his reasonable needs; and

(2) Is unable to support himself through appropriate employment or is the custodian of a child whose condition or circumstances make it appropriate that the custodian not be required to seek employment outside the home.

So in sum, it is not enough for a spouse to simply be out of work, the spouse must have needs that cannot be met and there must be a good reason why the spouse cannot be expected to support themselves through employment. If these conditions are satisfied, then the question is how much should be awarded.

If a Spouse Needs Maintenance, How Much Should an Award Be?

Unlike some states, like Illinois, for example, there is no formula to determine how much maintenance a spouse should receive. Missouri law requires a court to consider the following when determining how much a maintenance award should be:

(1) The financial resources of the party seeking maintenance, including marital property apportioned to him, and his ability to meet his needs independently, including the extent to which a provision for support of a child living with the party includes a sum for that party as custodian;

(2) The time necessary to acquire sufficient education or training to enable the party seeking maintenance to find appropriate employment;

(3) The comparative earning capacity of each spouse;

(4) The standard of living established during the marriage;

(5) The obligations and assets, including the marital property apportioned to him and the separate property of each party;

(6) The duration of the marriage;

(7) The age, and the physical and emotional condition of the spouse seeking maintenance;

(8) The ability of the spouse from whom maintenance is sought to meet his needs while meeting those of the spouse seeking maintenance;

(9) The conduct of the parties during the marriage; and

(10) Any other relevant factors.

As you can see from the above, a court has a lot of leeway to use its judgment. Based on the factors above, it is worth nothing that a need is not a guarantee of an award. Sometimes one spouse has a need and can qualify for spousal maintenance, but the other spouse lacks the resources to pay maintenance. In those circumstances a court may find that the appropriate award is zero.

In an uncontested divorce, the spouses can agree on the amount and duration of an award and simply include this in their settlement agreement. It is important to specify the duration unless it should continue indefinitely, and any termination events. For example, one spouse might receive maintenance “for 5 years or until remarriage, whichever comes first.”